Love Becomes Unwanted

We often say that we wanna hear our better half profess their love in a grand manner. We want to hear them say i love you more than anything else in this world. We wanna hear that its us they think of 24/7. We want to hear that we are the most important thing, person in their life, we are their number 1 priority. And a select lucky few may end up with someone who does all that. But when we get it, it often happens we don't want it anymore, suddenly we start using words like space, independence, individual self, time apart. We say that "i am not accountable to you for what i do every minute, get a life of your own". The same love we were running after now becomes unwanted, it becomes a burden. The calling becomes invasive, the i love you's become clingy and often go unanswered. We do this but do we wait and for once think about the other person, whom we expect to understand and adjust to our new reality. That person who has made us a way of their life, who has spent all this time trying to do what we have wanted. Who has given their heart, body and soul to us, so much so that they are co-dependent on the relation they think will last forever. We notice all this and what are great fucked up mind thinks is "this person is breathing my air", we feel suffocated. We forget we are the ones who expected them to behave in certain manner, its us who changes not them they still love us the same way, but we are ready to move on. Why cant we value what we have, why do we have to loose it to understand its worth, but some of us geniuses don't understand even then. well we rough tough types move on to a same or a different story. This is about us but what about the other type, what do they do, how do they cope up, we might say to them lets become friends or this is not right or its not meant to be you deserve someone better, we don't think about it do we? Well we better do cause someday in life it will be us who's love becomes unwanted, for that is when we have fallen in that one true love of our life.